Stephanie Lovell-Rose of El Cerrito, Calif., gives her daughter a bottle of breast milk from an area milk bank.
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WALNUT CREEK, Calif. -- After the birth of her daughter five years ago, Cynthia Li, of Berkeley, Calif., was diagnosed with a severe thyroid condition and was unable to breast feed.
Knowing the benefits of human milk, Ms. Li didn't want to use formula and lamented her situation to a friend. The friend offered to send out a mass e-mail on Ms. Li's behalf asking like-minded moms to donate their extra breast milk.
"I didn't even know people did that sort of thing," Ms. Li said.
Within one day, she received 20 calls. She accepted a water cooler full of breast milk from a woman whose daughter was the same age as Ms. Li's daughter, Rosa.
It may sound unusual, but sharing breast milk is a growing trend, from online trafficking to grass-roots organizations such as Eats on Feets to informal arrangements such as Ms. Li's. It also has a long history, from wet nurses -- lactating women for hire -- to co-nursing among relatives, particularly in ethnic families.
However, following recent warnings from the Food and Drug Administration and the Surgeon General about the potential risks associated with donor breast milk, experts say that using an accredited milk bank -- where donors are screened and expressed milk is processed in a lab -- is the best way to provide human milk to a baby who cannot get it from mom.
The Mothers' Milk Bank of San Jose, one of 10 banks accredited by the Human Milk Banking Association of North America, distributed 420,000 ounces of breast milk last year, a 25 percent increase from the previous year, Executive Director Pauline Sakamoto said. The nonprofit bank is state licensed and the first to receive endorsement from the Food and Drug Administration.
(Other locations of HMBANA milk banks are listed on its Web site, www.hmbana.org. They include Columbus, Indianapolis, and Kalamazoo, Mich.)
However, there is not an endless supply of breast milk. Half of the San Jose bank's milk goes to hospitalized preemies, whose weak intestinal tracts have trouble digesting formula and need the natural growth hormones in human milk; the other half goes to babies younger than 1 year of age with a prescription from a pediatrician. Typically, they are allergic to formula or mom is unable to nurse because of an illness or other reason.
With the $3-an-ounce price tag, it is not an option for many families.
Experts think the antibodies and white blood cells in human milk are beneficial to growing babies. Breast-fed babies also are at a reduced risk for infections, digestive issues, and chronic illnesses. For those reasons, some women are resorting to eBay or Craigslist, where, on March 21, a "healthy, 22-year-old mother" in Alameda listed her excess breast milk for $2 an ounce.
Other women turn to their communities, relying on good instincts to make informed decisions.
The woman that Ms. Li received her milk from was in good health and offered her medical records, but Ms. Li said she didn't need to see them.
"As a mother of a newborn, there is a trust," she said. "She wouldn't give me anything at risk because she was giving it to her own baby."
Since November, Wilma Ruth Torres, of Fremont, Calif., has donated more than 1,000 ounces of her breast milk to Mothers' Milk Bank. Pumping is time consuming, she said, but well worth it knowing the milk is going to help sick babies.
"That's why I do it," said Ms. Torres, who has an excess of milk from nursing her 9-month-old son, Samuel. "You can be a blood donor your whole life, but this is something special you can do for a short time."
In her work as a midwife, Shell Walker has helped facilitate casual milk sharing for more than 20 years. Now she does it through her Facebook-based nonprofit, Eats on Feets. The group is free and recommends that moms obtain the same donor screenings as the milk banks.
The organization also encourages mothers to make informed decisions about safe handling and home pasteurization.
"We're just a place for moms to post a need or abundance in their area," said Ms. Walker, who manages Eats on Feets Facebook pages in 35 cities.
Still, health professionals and other nursing advocates, including La Leche League International, caution against casual milk sharing because of potential risks to the baby, such as infection, bottle contamination, and the reality that some viruses and diseases are asymptomatic, said Diana Mahar, a pediatrician at Kaiser Permanente Pinole and a breast-feeding spokesman for the American Academy of Pediatrics.
"It's not a decision you should take lightly," she said. "Even if you think you know someone, you can't be certain about their lifestyle and the medications in their breast milk let alone illicit drugs, alcohol, tobacco, herbal remedies, or the environmental contaminants they're exposed to at their jobs. Personally, I wouldn't do it."
Safety aside, some people find the mere idea of milk sharing unsavory.
That's what happened to Shannon Leckey, of Walnut Creek, Calif. She had a great deal of trouble producing enough milk to feed her son when he was an infant.
Her cousin happened to be nursing at the time and had an abundant supply of breast milk -- liquid gold, in Ms. Leckey's eyes -- stored in her freezer, which she offered after a routine blood test to rule out any risks.
Ms. Leckey's husband, however, was not on board.
"He could not get over the ick factor and flat out refused to feed our son anyone else's milk," she said.
The concept, however, is ancient. According to Dr. Mahar, before the availability of artificial milk, if a mother was not able to nurse her infant, having a family member or other woman to nurse the baby was lifesaving.
"There were also many places around the world where wealthy women would use wet nurses because it was a sign of wealth and class and, in some cases, because it would allow them to get pregnant again sooner," she said.
Wet nurses fell out of fashion at the turn of the 20th century because of the availability of formula, the increased awareness of disease transmission, and a cultural shift that placed prime importance on a mother caring for and bonding with her own infant, Dr. Mahar said.
In an age of antibacterial hand sanitizers, Dr. Mahar said that the modern ick factor may stem from our fear of germs. For instance, she said, we don't cringe at the idea of blood transfusions that come in a sterile bag or vial.
Perhaps in the same way, milk from a milk bank may reduce some people's trepidation. Donors are put through rigorous screenings. They must be nonsmokers in good health whose blood tests are negative for herpes, HIV, and syphilis, Ms. Sakamoto said. Their milk arrives to the bank frozen and is thawed, heat-pasteurized to eliminate bacteria, lab tested, frozen, and stored before shipment.
That process put Stephanie Lovell-Rose, of El Cerrito, Calif., at ease when it came time to feed her premature twins. Allison and Sophia were born eight weeks early and weighed 3 and 4 pounds, respectively. They needed to be tube-fed for a month. Ms. Lovell-Rose's insurance covered the hospital-grade donor milk; once she brought the babies home, however, the $72 a day was her responsibility.
"It is so worth it; they are really thriving," Ms. Lovell-Rose said of her daughters, who are now 5 months old and weigh about 13 pounds each.
Laura Lyons, of Oakland, Calif., is paying an equally hefty price to supplement the organic formula that sustains her adopted son, Will. He was born seven weeks early and had an intestinal disorder. Ms. Lyons said they desperately needed breast milk for his condition, and she didn't feel comfortable taking hormones to try to produce it.
Mothers' Milk Bank provided the solution her baby needed, and for that, she is eternally grateful.
"I don't know if they [women who donate] are even aware of what a gift this is," she said, through tears. "It makes me emotional just thinking about it."